How to Bond with your Siblings, Don’t you wish they were never born!

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Hello beautiful people, I know it has been a while that I haven’t blogged, well like any normal human being life ties people down in many ways, some times positive and some times negative. But I practice what I preach, and I have come to the conclusion is that there are more problems in the thought than reality, more on that another time!

Now back to the title of the blog, the reason I felt I wanted to write about this topic was because I see many siblings out there who just aren’t living the full potential of their relationship. Siblings are your God gifted friends. I know they can be annoying when they tell on you or irritate you. But if these nominal issues are cleared then you can have the most blissful relationship with your siblings. I have put together tips on how to improve or work on your relationship today.

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Top Tips on How to Bond with your Siblings Today

1. Have a heart to heart whenever you can, start small not indulging in your biggest secrets as first, because I can hear you right now, “I CAN’T TRUST THEM!”. I am not saying to tell them everything but build with telling them small things, like how you feel about them and how you appreciate them as a sibling. Or just share your day with them. Over time you will be able to build that foundation of trust.

2. Just imagine how happy or how much distress you cause your parents when you are not getting on with your brother/sister? Do things together as a family as and when you can, this will not only help your relationship with your siblings but put a smile on your parents face.

3. Get to know their interests and suggest things that make them happy. Plan things together and try to spend quality time alone. Like any relationship time is essential.

4. Before doing any of the above steps, you would need to clear any misunderstandings or negative feelings you have towards them. For that I usually say to sit and write down 10 things you are grateful for about them and why. This will help you to start appreciating them as a whole. The more you focus on their negative parts of their personality then that will increase in them, or you will attract it more lets say.

5. Look at life from their perspective, you may be so busy in your own troubles that you never notice theirs. Ask them if they are ok now and then, check on them. Just asking if you are ok regardless if you can do anything about it would make a massive impact their lives, and build that trust of them coming to you when they just need you to listen.

6. Appreciate and understand that everyone is different. I know older or even younger siblings can make us feel small, but treat them as their opinion of their personality. You can’t always change people but you can change your perspective of them.

7. Let go of any past pain and forgive them from deep inside. Not forgiving is like poisoning yourself for others faults. Just let go and move on, trust me you will feel a better sense of internal peace. Let go and love them anyway.

I hope you enjoyed my above tips and I wish you a prosperous relationship with your brothers/sisters! Have a wonderful day…..


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Musart Ellaahi is An Author of the Book Elaynna, A Motivational International speaker, with successful turn over events in Denmark and Norway, covering self help topics of Worry and Letting go of fear. Musart Ellaahi has also been on Islam Channel to talk about her work of being a life coach and a self help guru. Musart Ellaahi also writes a self help blog covering various subjects of the human mindset on Her clients success rate of being healed and a refreshed mindset is within a space of 4 months. Musart Ellaahi has a background in Psychology as well as constantly learning on a daily basis to help others improve their mindset. Musart Ellaahi has also written 2 short books, one called Top Ten Tips on Attracting Money and Prosperity and the second Trample The Mouse Within. Musart Ellaahi has also landed her own TV show called THE LIFE SHOW WITH MUSART on LB24TV, Her aim is to interview inspirational people from around the World so they can share their knowledge and tribulations to prove to the world if they could do it why can't you? Musart Ellaahi was also featured in the Hayati Magazine regarding her novel Elaynna which gives voice to learning difficulties in Pakistan. Musart Ellaahi has also been on Inspire FM 105 as a guest to talk about her work as well as her books.

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